How can we understand authentic selfhood in a dialogical context rather than as an individualistic pursuit?

According to Yale lecturer Matthew Croasmun, authentic selfhood isn't discovered in isolation but formed through dialogical relationships with significant others. He challenges the notion that we are self-standing individuals, emphasizing that our selves are historically situated and constantly being formed through community. True authenticity involves recognizing that we are interconnected beings whose identities emerge through meaningful relationships with others. Rather than projecting ourselves to the world as isolated individuals, ethical authenticity requires us to acknowledge our shared horizons of significance and engage in the work of recognition with others, which may ultimately lead us to discover our unique vocations and callings.